The Road More Traveled

Here’s a quick map I drew of an intersection that I go through a lot on my way home.    I’m not an artist, but I thought I could draw it better than explain it.  It’s the general idea.

The red lines are the route I’m usually on.  It’s a gradual hill to the first X and steeper to the second X.  The four lane highway is flat.  The black O by the first X is supposed to be a stop sign.  The people coming up the hill from the bottom of the paper have the right of way.  So during busy times of day you can really end up waiting for a while through the stop sign and the lights.  Sometimes I’ve gone right through and sometimes I’ve waited for-e-ver!

I remember riding with my Mom on our way home from the store.  I didn’t pay any attention to the car, the road, the light, or anything.  I just rode along.

Then I remember learning to drive standard in my Dad’s van with him in the passenger seat.  I was scared I would roll into the car behind me or stall in the middle of the roads, but I made it.

I remember waiting in my little teal Cavalier, singing to my favorite tape, running my AC, just drumming my fingers and waiting for the light.

Next was my husband’s big step-side truck with a leaky sunroof.  I’d dropped him off at work and had the truck for the day.  At that intersection I remember sitting and sweating because the AC was broken.  My leg was sore from pushing the clutch, and I was still nervous about stalling or rolling on the hill.

Today I drove our Suburban to the second in line position and listened to my children slurping juice boxes and singing along to their CD.

So many stages in my life.  One intersection.  Wonder what I’ll be driving next?

Do you have any familiar intersections in your life?  Any you’ve left behind?

‘Twas the Week Before Christmas

I’m glad it’s finally Christmas.  The next week stretches before me with not as much to do. . .

Last week went like this:

  • Monday – My Birthday.  My husband and I went to a third choice restaurant because the first 2 were closed due to the power outage caused by the ice.
  • Tuesday – Morning at home doing housework.  Worked in church office in evening preparing for rest of week
  • Wednesday – Housework & laundry in morning.  Prayer Service in evening.
  • Thursday – Housework & sewing in morning.  Nursing home ministry in evening.
  • Friday – More housework in morning [You'd think I'd be caught up, but no.]  Church Christmas party in evening.  We had a fun present exchange and my 5 yr. old son ended up with a 2 liter of soda.  He said that he would share with me if I share my mini Snickers with him.  Then he carried it home all by himself.  We didn’t open it for a while; just imagine a 5 yo with a carbonated beverage. . .
  • Saturday – My husband was free to spend the day with us.  Hooray!  We all went to a breakfast buffet [kids free!].  Then we took the kids shopping for each of us.  It was interesting how we split up in the store, but somehow managed to bump into each other a lot.  We even got a grocery stop in on the way home.
  • Sunday – Had a Jesus Birthday Party for the 3-5 year olds with cake and ice cream.  Crazy fun.  I’m glad we did it, and I’m glad it’s only once a year!  The evening service was our Candlelight service.  My 3 year old sat the most still that I have ever seen!  All I need to do is give her a lighted candle. ;)

Sunday Poem ~ Ready For Christmas

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            Ready For Christmas

                                             

“Ready for Christmas,” she said with a sigh,
As she gave a last touch to the gifts piled high,
Then wearily sat for a moment and read,
Till soon, very soon, she was nodding her head.

                                         

Then quietly spoke a voice in her dream,
“Ready for Christmas? What do you mean?
Ready for Christmas when only last week
You wouldn’t acknowledge your friend on the street.

                               

“Ready for Christmas, while holding a grudge?
Perhaps you had better let God be the judge,
Why, how can the Christ-child come and abide
In the heart that is selfish and filled with pride?

                           

“Ready for Christmas when only today
A beggar lad came and you turned him away
Without even a smile to show that you cared?
The little he asked — it could have been spared.

                                

“Ready for Christmas? You’ve worked, it is true,
But just doing the things that you wanted to do.
Ready for Christmas? Your circle’s too small –
Why, you are not ready for Christmas at all!”

                                 

She awoke with a start and a cry of despair,
“There’s so little time and I’ve still to prepare.
O Father, forgive me, I see what You mean,
To be ready means more than a house swept clean.”

                                 

Yes, more than the giving of gifts and a tree,
It’s the heart swept clean that He wants to see;
A heart that is free from bitterness, sin –
Ready for Christmas — and ready for HIM.

                                               ~ Alice Haneche Mortensen

They Made Me Laugh

My 3 year old daughter found a pair of ear muffs, and put them on.  Then she said, “How do you make them work?  I can’ t hear any music.”

My 5 year old son was insistent the other night that his beard was starting.  “Feel my chin Daddy.  Feel how rough it is.”

Then last night he asked me, “Can I have another cookie?  I only had three.”

Chewing the Proverbial Cud

I think that I have a good memory; although lately it’s been a little shaky. . .  Anyways, I can remember lots of good things.  I can also remember lots of slights/hurts/nastiness whether real or perceived by me.  Sometimes it is things that were not even directed right at me, but were very hurtful to me anyway.  It may have been done by a person that I may never see again.

It does me no good to “chew” on things that hurt me.  To mull them over and let them fester hurts my life and my family’s life.

Within the past several months I read in a book about a girl/lady that was working on forgiveness.  Whenever that person or incident came to mind she would pray and forgive.

Since then I have tried to make this a habit in my life.  Instead of replaying in my mind over and over what happened and thinking about how I was hurt, I pray.  I can’t say that I always pray, “Lord I forgive them.”  Sometimes I pray, “Lord, give me the strength to forgive them.”  Sometimes it’s just groanings.

Regardless of how I pray the prayer itself makes me feel better; and I pray that it makes me a better Christian, wife, and mother.

Matthew 18 21-22  Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?  Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
2 Cor 2 10-11  To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ; Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.