Sunday Poem ~ For My Husband

Signing the Register by Edmund Blair Leighton

Oh, let me lay my head tonight upon your breast
And close my eyes against the light. I fain would rest.
I’m weary and the world looks sad. This worldly strife
Turns me to you! And, oh, I’m glad to be your wife.
Though friends may fail or turn aside, yet I have you.
And in your love I may abide for you are true.
My only solace in each grief, and in despair
Your tenderness is my relief. It soothes each care.
If joys of life could alienate this poor weak heart
From yours, then may no pleasure great enough to part
Our sympathies fall to my lot. I’d ever remain
Bereft of friends, though true or not, just to retain
Your true regard, your presence bright, thru care and strife;
And, oh, I thank my God tonight I am your wife.

Author Unknown

 

P.S.  Dear Man of Mine.  We’ve had a vacation and been so busy I really don’t mind that we didn’t exchange cards this year.  Here’s a poem that I would love to have found in a card.

Romance on My Mind

My husband has loved me through many ups and downs.  He loves me when I’m happy, when I’m not happy, and when I’m worse than not happy.

He loves me when I bake him cookies, and when he can’t find a place on the counter to sit his cup.

He loves me when I have the house picture perfect [rare occasion] and when I use his camera then don’t put it back so he can’t find it.

He loves me when I make his favorite foods, and when I don’t pack his lunch.

He loves me when I iron his shirts, and when he has to dig in the dryer for socks.

He loves me when I take care of the children, and when I lock myself in my room and leave the kids with him.

He loves me when I’m dressed up for church, and when it’s the first thing in the morning – ‘nough said.

He loves me when I make money online, and when I mess up the computer so he has to redo everything.

He loves me when I’m singing, and when I’m snarling.

I don’t have a spectacular conclusion for you.  Just that real love is not given to someone because they deserve it.

HEARTS-1.jpg Rainbow Hearts image by HeyHeyItsAlli

Have you ever watched the movie Just Like Heaven?  [I'm not endorsing, just remembering.]

David describes his wife Laura to Elizabeth by the little things she did that drove him crazy.  It makes me melt every time. It has so much more meaning than if he would have described how perfect she was.

You can hear his description in the first 2 minutes of this clip.  If you haven’t watched the movie I suggest that you stop the clip at the 2 minute mark.

Telepathy, Genius, or Rapport?

My husband leads the congregational singing for one of the church services each week. I’m usually at the piano, watching him. As the months pass I can interpret his looks better. I think I know what he is trying to convey and I ask him afterwards to see if our thoughts matched. Is the hymn too fast? too slow? too hard?

When he started leading songs he was very nervous and I would smile and nod when he did a good job. I would try to just keep a deadpan face and not frown too much when I thought he was doing a lousy job. He, of course, will look over at me when I hit a sour note.

This past Sunday I brazenly winked at him.

I think that over the years our telepathy ability has intensified. I don’t mean for real as much as the ability to communicate without words. The children seem to have a BIG factor in making us do this more. We can look at each other now and say the same thing. Well, most of the time anyway. We still throw each other for a loop every now and then.

I’m glad for it and enjoy it. It makes me think that we are becoming more “one flesh” every day.

Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Or it could just be that “great minds think alike.”